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Roberta Sue
Von Bargen
Jun 14, 1939 — Aug 13, 2026
Carolina Shores, NC
Roberta ( Bobbie Sue) Von Bargen, a cherished wife, devoted mother, beloved
grandmother, great-grandmother, and loyal friend, went to be with Jesus peacefully on
August 13th, 2026, at the age of 87. Her final moments were graced with dignity and
love in the comfort of her home, under the compassionate care of Lower Cape Fear
Hospice. Born on June 14th, 1939, to Edward and Lillie Meldick, Roberta was a beacon
of kindness and warmth, leaving behind a legacy of love and dedication to her family
and community.
Roberta was the loving daughter of the late Viola and Walter Ater. She was
predeceased by her parents, her twin brother Robert, sisters Shirley and Karen, her
brother Kaye. Despite these profound losses, Roberta’s life was filled with joy and love,
which she shared abundantly with those around her.
She is survived by her devoted husband of 64 years, Bruce Von Bargen, who was by
her side through every season of life. Together, they built a beautiful family, which
includes their children Geoff, Janelle, and Jennifer (Moore) along with her husband
Tony. Roberta’s legacy continues through her cherished grandchildren: Matthew
(Elaine) Moore, Megan Moore, Alex Kelch, Paxton Von Bargen, Bryce, Evan and Owen
Robinson. Her love further extends to her five great-grandchildren: Bryson, Jase, Kyla
Ann, Dana, and Dash.
Roberta shared a special bond with her sisters Patty Cross, Eileen Hatfield, and
Rosemary DeBartelo, as well as her brother and sister-in-law, Lester and Cathy Von
Bargen, and Floyd Head. Her life was enriched by the love of many nieces, nephews.
A graduate of Bloomingburg High School, Roberta pursued her passion for education at
The Ohio State University, earning a BS degree in Special Education. She was
dedicated to her work first as a Home-Based Specialist, a classroom teacher and later
as a Case Manager and Case Manager Director for the Fayette County Board. She
served as a substitute teacher for Washington City Schools after her retirement and her
commitment to special education continued as she taught special education in a middle
school in Delaware’s Christiana School System after her move to Delaware.
Roberta was a woman of deep faith and service, dedicating over fifty years to St.
Andrew’s Episcopal Church (now All Saints), where she taught Sunday school, helped
with the youth groups, and sang in the choir. As a fifty-year member of the Herber
Chapter of the Eastern Star, she embodied the values of charity and truth.
Her love for life was evident in her hobbies. An Avid gardener, reader, and seamstress,
Roberta found joy in the beauty of creation and creativity. She was known for her love
of auctions, her talent for refinishing furniture, and her budding skills as a guitarist, and
love of her dachshunds.
Roberta’s family will hold a private funeral service to honor her life. In lieu of flowers,
donations can be made to the outreach programs she cared for deeply at: St. James the
Fisherman Episcopal church, All Saints Church Outreach, or Lower Cape Fear Hospice.
In special message, her family expresses heartfelt gratitude to the caregivers who
provided tender support during her final days: Kathy, Jamie, Courtney, Darcy, Chaplain
Elizabeth, Walter, Nancy, Chris, Fr. Farrell, Fr. Warren, and the Sunshine Company.
Roberta’s life was a testament to love, kindness, and service. She leaves behind a
legacy that will continue to inspire and guide her family and friends. Her spirit will
forever remain in the hearts of all who were fortunate to know her.
Online condolences are encouraged and may be sent to the family at
www.fulwoodfuneralservice.com
Michael J Fulwood Funeral & Cremation Service
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